In the past few weeks/months I took lots of criticisms and insults directed at who I am as a person. I want to address you people who have been doing so.
1. If you have an issue with someone, doing it anonymous makes your crap nothing but crap. Be mature enough to talk to me either in person or to tell me who you are.
2. There are a few people in my life whose criticisms and words I take to heart. There are those who are in that circle whose criticisms mean something to me. For those outside of that, I do hear you out but what you have to say doesn’t matter to me… because you don’t matter to me.
3. I don’t hate you nor do I feel enough anger to take you on, but what I ask is a substantial level of maturity. Letting your emotions get in the way is a sign of your weakness. Shape up before you think you have the knowledge and ability to criticize others.
4. I’m not a perfect being. I will never be. This is not to say I give up trying to be a better person. I do have flaws and have made too many mistakes in my life that I’m not proud of. If you can’t take that into consideration before approaching me, I won’t value what you have to say at all.
The four points are fairly similar. Grow up yea? If you are not trying to improve that person but letting your immaturity and your emotions get in the way… then I honestly think you just need to shut up.